Answered by Sayyidi Habib Umar bin Hafiz (may Allah protect him and benefit us by him).
What is the difference between someone who dislikes to meet Allah and someone who is fearful of meeting Him?
There is a big difference. The one who dislikes to meet Allah has no connection to Allah and he attempts to flee from Him. The one who is fearful of meeting Allah may also love Him. He is fearful of not being accepted by Allah or being punished by Him.